Allen the Gallivanter

Had some technical difficulties and had to delete my last post. Some gay guy made me take it down, but because he asked me, I reluctantly agreed to doing it. He made me also agree not to let you all know who it is or mention anything about this again.

On another note, my favorite gay DJ is coming from San Jose:

DJ RAYZARUCKUS

Yesterday was one of my best friends bday. If you have not gone to Manna in K TOWN, you guys need to celebrate a bday there. It is wild and give you a bigger appreciation for the party atmosphere that the Korean people love. 

Jo getting caked by Myron and Jerry

Which brings me to my point of the day. A really big lesson that my High School football coach told me has stuck with me to this day. “Surround yourself with positive people, and positive things will happen.” I have been blessed to this point to have some of the greatest friends ever. When I look around at other groups of friends, it shocks me that they continue to allow their friends to act stupid. That is what I call the ENABLING FRIEND. That is a friend who you come to for advice, and they give you the stupidest advice, knowing that what you are arguing for in the first place is dumb. You see this a lot in groups of girls for some reason, which in my personal evaluation, leads to about 50-75% of relationship breakups. Is it really necessary for people to argue about 90% of what they are arguing about. If someone is looking for advice, especially from a friend, they should get it. 

On monday, we were at Rishi’s house for his surprise bday. I was asked why I am so mean to Stephen.

The reason why I act the way I do towards Stephen is because if I am nice to him, I am telling him that I agree with the way that he acts. No one can say they have not tried to get him to change his ways more then I. He was hanging out with me for over a year, and yes i had to listen to his DRAMA every single day. For all those that know him, something is ALWAYS wrong. So after a while, I said that if he wants to act like a fagget, I will treat him like a fagget. The day he decides he wants to let little shit go and just be happy, then I will treat him better. 

So in closing, life is to short to argue about little things in life. Who cares if you are the last to know about something, internet drama, what someone else is wearing, you bumped into me, the amount of gogo’s that are on the bill, GIRLS, who is at certain places with a whole group, the amount of time you spend with someone, the length of time it takes for you to call back, not answering your phone! These are just small little things, but most importantly, if your friends are acting stupid, be a real friend and tell them what’s going on. Do not enable them to continue to act like a moron. Do not tell them that it is ok to cry about the little things in life. You will be a much happier person and a way better friend if you do so.